Codie's Problem Solving Thread!

mdw said:
I do know one boy who's interested...he's really sweet and not to old (32), but he's just not my type. I know he's been wanting to ask me out(he's reeeeealy shy) but I'm not interested in him, other than a friend. It seems to work that way a lot. There's no one I'M interested in.
hmmmmmm that hard to you do any activities of traveling and going places to find someone?
 
No, not really. On my days off I tend to hang around the house. Plus, I am saving to go back to school so I don't ever go anywhere that costs money. I have a pretty boring life right now..... :asleep: :asleep: :asleep:
 
mdw said:
No, not really. On my days off I tend to hang around the house. Plus, I am saving to go back to school so I don't ever go anywhere that costs money. I have a pretty boring life right now..... :asleep: :asleep: :asleep:
Well when you save up for college find someone at college ;)
 
I really like one of my guy friends, but there are several problems. His best friend used to like me (we went to prom together, but only as friends), my friend had a crush on him for years and told him last year ( and now he doesn't talk to her b/c he doesn't want to lead her on), and he says that he probably would not want to go out with a friend because he did that once (for like two years) and got his heart broken ( and lost a good friend). Sounds like I should just give up right? But he is a really great guy ( he goes to my church, he is smart, really funny, and nice), and I don't meet many guys b/c I am so busy all the time. I don't feel right about telling him how I feel though b/c I don't want him to do the same thing to me that he did to my friend ( who doesn't like him anymore by the way). :banghead: What to do Codie? What to do?!?
 
I have had this guy friend of mine since we were in pre school. His name is noel. Well we always hang out it's like were un seprable. we have never discussed going out or stuff like that. because I never thougth of something like that. I mean Yes he is hott. But we are like best friends. You dont kiss your girl friends ya know. Well anyway the other day we were studying for this exam we had and he leaned in and kissed me. at first I didnt pull away,but then I realized who it was. After that It's been pretty awkward around us. And I wanna tell him how I feel But if I do that I am scared we will lose the great relationship we had. I AM SOOOOOOOO confused. I really need help.

Thank you
 
ok there is one guy i want but he's in the middle east at the moment!and that makes things difficult..but he really was interested in me too until he lef the country! we keep in contact and all but i really am kinda wanting to hold back because i really don't know where to go on fom talking to each other... i know it sounds odd but i really don't want to ruin a friendship already gotten by saying that i am still interested! althought i'm not the best judge when it comes to men! you should see the list of failure or lack of in some areas!
 
Sunfire_77 said:
I have had this guy friend of mine since we were in pre school. His name is noel. Well we always hang out it's like were un seprable. we have never discussed going out or stuff like that. because I never thougth of something like that. I mean Yes he is hott. But we are like best friends. You dont kiss your girl friends ya know. Well anyway the other day we were studying for this exam we had and he leaned in and kissed me. at first I didnt pull away,but then I realized who it was. After that It's been pretty awkward around us. And I wanna tell him how I feel But if I do that I am scared we will lose the great relationship we had. I AM SOOOOOOOO confused. I really need help.

Thank you
Well if you are ready for a relationship and stuff and you love each other you will be much closer! :D
 
ice said:
ok there is one guy i want but he's in the middle east at the moment!and that makes things difficult..but he really was interested in me too until he lef the country! we keep in contact and all but i really am kinda wanting to hold back because i really don't know where to go on fom talking to each other... i know it sounds odd but i really don't want to ruin a friendship already gotten by saying that i am still interested! althought i'm not the best judge when it comes to men! you should see the list of failure or lack of in some areas!
How is loving a friend breaking your friendly relationship?
You can still be friends and if you have a crush on them love them! ^_^
 
ok thanks codie.. lol the other thing was that it went against organisational protocol to date or be together with him( an example close to home would be S&V and their relationship involving protocol ect...) .... since he was higher ranking in a way ( an instructor/mentor to all the members)... it's just weird i'm not used to wanting a romatic involvement with a friend!
 
i figured it out. it was more of my stupidity.

why is it that people would rather relate their problems to a stranger than ask someone they know? is it because they it's better to get someonelse's view on something? is it really better?
 
alias_fan said:
i figured it out. it was more of my stupidity.

why is it that people would rather relate their problems to a stranger than ask someone they know? is it because they it's better to get someonelse's view on something? is it really better?
How am I a stranger! ;) lol jk! :smiley:
 
not that ur a stranger on this site but in like real life people would rather relate their problems to a stranger or in your case a person they cannot see and won't judge them first off.
 
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