AgentNicBristow
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I am one of the few males on this board, and understand that MANY OF YOU are baffled by male behavior and have alot of questions. I will do my best to answer them. whos first? 
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Vaughn_Lovah
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Alright lets see how you guys do with this.
If a guy really likes a girl but is terrified of relationships and has never had a girlfriend, why doesnt he just go for it?
If a guy really likes a girl but is terrified of relationships and has never had a girlfriend, why doesnt he just go for it?
AgentNicBristow
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well, because like you said, he is terrified of relationships, and has never had a girlfriend, so he would not know how to deal with it.
Vaughn_Lovah
Vaughn's Chin Fondler
yea but how you go about making the guy a little less terrified hmmmm?
Victoria King
Cadet
i have a question! okay i like this guy and we were talking alot on line and he even asked me out to see a movie but then nothing else was said about then, then a week went by, i asked about the movie and now we have barely talked and ever time i try talking he doesnt say that much(all of our talking is online, but i know him in the real world to not that internet isnt real!LOL,confusing i know!) im completly lost on what to do and i really like him?!any suggestions or insights!?
AgentNicBristow
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make him comfortable when hes around you. make it clear to him that he isnt crazy, and you REALLY ARE coming onto him. make him feel like he is a stud. i know it sounds difficult, but thats the best way to go about it.Vaughn_Lovah said:
AgentNicBristow
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okay, he likes you, but he probly feels thing have gotten weird because of the silence. like i suggested before, make it clear to him that you are interested. Its amazing how the talking will pick up after that.Victoria King said:
AgentNicBristow
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GO syd is right. it is much easier to be frank over the internet than in person. try your best to not make things weird between you two and approach him in person with conversation.GO Syd said:
Victoria King
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see the problem is i havent seen him since the summer, long story but in the summer we were together alot and got along really well, not like that but really good friends that flirted alot!lol, and then last month i got his sn and thats where we are now!oh and in between we didnt see each other for like months except i saw him at a football game and he saw me but we were both too afraid to say hi, we later talked about this but quickly moved onto something else, any other suggestions, and yeah i think he might be afraid to see me and i am too but i really want to and im hoping he is too, any other insights?thanks!
aliasjgfanaticmv
Cadet
Ok, now I have a question, LMAO!! Why is that my guy friends feel they have a need to protect me? Okay, maybe you can't get inside their heads or anything, but do you have any idea? Because they know I'm perfectly capable of kicking their butts and taking care of myself, yet they don't care. It gets so annoying, because when I try to make friends, JUST friends with other guys, they get all, hey, you hurt her, I'll kill you. I'm like, thanks but no thanks. I just want more friends!!! :angry: Ok,if you can't answer, don't bother.
AgentNicBristow
Cadet
Conversation is hard after so much time between. MAKE HIM FEEL comfortable around you. if he isnt approaching you with coversation, approach him. If he is shy, then you have to initiate it.
Vaughn_Lovah
Vaughn's Chin Fondler
thanks Nic, I will try that at prom this weekend, and yes he did ask me to prom.
-VL
-VL
AgentNicBristow
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He probably thinks of you as a younger sister type. Tell him you dont like it when he does that. he'll back off.aliasjgfanaticmv said:Ok, now I have a question, LMAO!! Why is that my guy friends feel they have a need to protect me? Okay, maybe you can't get inside their heads or anything, but do you have any idea? Because they know I'm perfectly capable of kicking their butts and taking care of myself, yet they don't care. It gets so annoying, because when I try to make friends, JUST friends with other guys, they get all, hey, you hurt her, I'll kill you. I'm like, thanks but no thanks. I just want more friends!!! :angry: Ok,if you can't answer, don't bother.
AgentNicBristow
Cadet
GOOD LUCK!!Vaughn_Lovah said:thanks Nic, I will try that at prom this weekend, and yes he did ask me to prom.
-VL
aliasjgfanaticmv
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Actually, it's not just a he, it's like 3 he's....But, I'll try it anyway!AgentNicBristow said:He probably thinks of you as a younger sister type. Tell him you dont like it when he does that. he'll back off.aliasjgfanaticmv said:Ok, now I have a question, LMAO!! Why is that my guy friends feel they have a need to protect me? Okay, maybe you can't get inside their heads or anything, but do you have any idea? Because they know I'm perfectly capable of kicking their butts and taking care of myself, yet they don't care. It gets so annoying, because when I try to make friends, JUST friends with other guys, they get all, hey, you hurt her, I'll kill you. I'm like, thanks but no thanks. I just want more friends!!! :angry: Ok,if you can't answer, don't bother.
Thanks!Victoria King
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nothing is different i dont think, im still as odd as i was then(and he saw that side definatly i mean i hit him with a shoe and fought him for a piece of crust off pizza, fun times!LOL)i dont know what is different, well here is more info that might help you help me(lol!) he is two years younger then me and when we talked first on line it was like hi tehn bye then the second time we talked it was like six hours!and that carried on for like two weeks then im here with no talking now! i mean we will start talking then he will be like i have to go then put up an away message! and he is still open i mean he told me about his ex-girlfriend which really hurt me!!but oh well!thanks for the help guys!!!