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Courtship

Discussion in 'Open Chat' started by glimmerofhope, Jun 9, 2003.

  1. glimmerofhope

    glimmerofhope Rocket Ranger

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    :love: I'm in a romantic mood at the moment and I was thinking how I like guys to take me out on dates, what sort of places I like them to take me and how I like to be treated, that sort of thing. I love guys who are kind of old fashioned, that would just take me for walks and dancing (not to clubs) and thing like that, that's probably why I love all those old fashioned Doris Day type movies. How about you? It doesn't have to be old fashioned.
     
  2. aliaschick4mv

    aliaschick4mv Rocket Ranger

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    I'm an old fasioned type. Or I would be if anyone asked me out. So, I'd have to say, dinner and some pizza. :giggle: I like pizza. And I've been in karate for 9 years, so he better not try to kiss me on a first date. Cuz I doubt I'll be ready.
     
  3. Aliasgirl47

    Aliasgirl47 Rocket Ranger

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    Umm, I am very old fashioned. Guys must ask me out and ask me to dance, except in the case of Matt where I make all the moves on him, stealing dances with him from my friends, a kiss on the cheek, ect...basically, cuz I'll do anything to get him, but he is old fashioned too. He'll do simply whatever you want to do, he won't make moves suddenly, and isn't more interested in your chest than your face and he holds the door open for you WHEREVER you go and always lets you in first. he's always a gentleman...
     
  4. aliaschick4mv

    aliaschick4mv Rocket Ranger

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    LMAO Mandi- Maybe this should also go in the M&Ms LOL We'd love some more Matt character profiling. ;)
     
  5. glimmerofhope

    glimmerofhope Rocket Ranger

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    mandi I wish I knew a guy who would hold open doors for me I can't seem to find any!!!
     
  6. VaughnFan13

    VaughnFan13 Rocket Ranger

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    umm...well, i'm only 14, so for dates, we'd go to the movies or to eat and do something else too.

    as for finding guys who open doors for a girl, my friend's boyfriend does that all the time. he carries her books, opens door for her, gets up from his seat so she can sit, anything she needs, he gets....etc

    ^that would annoy me sooo much if a guy did that to me. i mean, carrying my books every once in a while is ok, but i dont need a guy's help all the time. i dont need him to do everything for me. i can open my own doors, and carry my own books. i would do all of those things before a boyfriend, and i can still do them after i get one. i can carry my boyfriend's stuff, and i can open doors for him too you know. i don't really like old-fashioned guys...they just annoy me a lil, i mean, sure its nice, but still. like, i needed to get a thesaurus for this paper in english, a friend and i were working on. anyways, we needed a thesaurus, and i rose to get one. then, my friend's boyfriend who was sitting next to us (we're kind of friends with him), stood up and headed to get the book for me. he had to work on his own paper, so why would he go get the thesaurus for us? i made him sit down, told him i didnt like when guys did that, and to please not do it again for me, and told him that i could carry my own book.
     
  7. IluvVaughn13

    IluvVaughn13 Vaughnster's Girl

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    I have always pictures how my perfect date I wish it happened but hey ...ok Im an oldfashion girl like most of you so walks on the beach is perfect for me but I love the rain I would like to sit and drink coffee or hot chocolate sitting by a fire talking all night.
     
  8. btvaughn

    btvaughn Rocket Ranger

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    I'm not one for the big fancy dates, though I'd love to go on some at one point or another! I wish I could find someone who'd be more than willing to just stay in and watch or movie or something....ok so it's kind of boring.

    But I want someone who can actually carry a conversation.....I hate one sided kind of ones. But along with that, I'd like to just go outside on a walk and talk....sunset, forest, beach moonlight, water, sitting on a bench at night under the stars ::memories....::;)
     
  9. aliasjgfanaticmv

    aliasjgfanaticmv Rocket Ranger

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    hmm.. if I wanted a guy to take me out, I'd like him to take me out to my car so I can go home.
     
  10. btvaughn

    btvaughn Rocket Ranger

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    lol..what?! none for you jo?
     
  11. aliasjgfanaticmv

    aliasjgfanaticmv Rocket Ranger

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    None for me. No one, nothing, nada, zip, zero, zilch, I will grow up old and bitter ^_^
     
  12. nance

    nance TUMS

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    Eeeek... um guys... well if i had to go out with one i would want to do something competitive and unique...



    like.... sky diving or skiing in the Alps!!! i hate dates... they're so stuipd and annoying :rolleyes: if i had to go on a date--- it would be something WILD!!!!
     
  13. btvaughn

    btvaughn Rocket Ranger

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    lol...just let me find a guy first and I'll let the date follow, but I'm too romantic to let that pass!
     
  14. Lilly

    Lilly Rocket Ranger

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    ummm.... i dont know! but i want this guy to kiss me! though a date... Sunset just us two, on a beach holding hands just talking and being with each other, and kissing being romantic and old fashion
     
  15. alias_fan

    alias_fan typically terrific

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    a guy would have to ask me out.
     
  16. SiriCerasi

    SiriCerasi Rocket Ranger

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    no guys askin me out...
     
  17. alias_fan

    alias_fan typically terrific

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    this one really weird guy i'd never seen before asked me out last year. it was pretty funny. i said no.
     
  18. Alias Obsessed 47

    Alias Obsessed 47 Rocket Ranger

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    awwwwww..........we dont want a bitter jo. for me, id like a gentleman to hold doors open, to carry books for me, and to bring me cards and flowers on our anniversaries. but..........GET REAL! how many ppl do u know that are like that? oh well.
     
  19. btvaughn

    btvaughn Rocket Ranger

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    that's ok...same here, but I don't mind! It's so much more fun planning that perfect date...that I umm will never go on....lol
     
  20. SydneyandVaughn

    SydneyandVaughn Rocket Ranger

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    Well, I haven't ever really been on a date. None that I would consider dates, at any rate. I'm old-fashioned too, and want to just be treated nicely. I'm lately considering not dating anyway, though. At any rate, I have 2 guy friends with whom I hang around constantly. They are so sweet to me (just in the friend way), and they ALWAYS hold the doors open for me. In fact, they get "angry" at me when I open doors. They are the perfect gentlemen, and when Mr. Right comes around, I want him to treat me the same way.
     

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