Courtship

:love: I'm in a romantic mood at the moment and I was thinking how I like guys to take me out on dates, what sort of places I like them to take me and how I like to be treated, that sort of thing. I love guys who are kind of old fashioned, that would just take me for walks and dancing (not to clubs) and thing like that, that's probably why I love all those old fashioned Doris Day type movies. How about you? It doesn't have to be old fashioned.
 
I'm an old fasioned type. Or I would be if anyone asked me out. So, I'd have to say, dinner and some pizza. :blush: I like pizza. And I've been in karate for 9 years, so he better not try to kiss me on a first date. Cuz I doubt I'll be ready.
 
Umm, I am very old fashioned. Guys must ask me out and ask me to dance, except in the case of Matt where I make all the moves on him, stealing dances with him from my friends, a kiss on the cheek, ect...basically, cuz I'll do anything to get him, but he is old fashioned too. He'll do simply whatever you want to do, he won't make moves suddenly, and isn't more interested in your chest than your face and he holds the door open for you WHEREVER you go and always lets you in first. he's always a gentleman...
 
glimmerofhope said:
mandi I wish I knew a guy who would hold open doors for me I can't seem to find any!!!
umm...well, i'm only 14, so for dates, we'd go to the movies or to eat and do something else too.

as for finding guys who open doors for a girl, my friend's boyfriend does that all the time. he carries her books, opens door for her, gets up from his seat so she can sit, anything she needs, he gets....etc

^that would annoy me sooo much if a guy did that to me. i mean, carrying my books every once in a while is ok, but i dont need a guy's help all the time. i dont need him to do everything for me. i can open my own doors, and carry my own books. i would do all of those things before a boyfriend, and i can still do them after i get one. i can carry my boyfriend's stuff, and i can open doors for him too you know. i don't really like old-fashioned guys...they just annoy me a lil, i mean, sure its nice, but still. like, i needed to get a thesaurus for this paper in english, a friend and i were working on. anyways, we needed a thesaurus, and i rose to get one. then, my friend's boyfriend who was sitting next to us (we're kind of friends with him), stood up and headed to get the book for me. he had to work on his own paper, so why would he go get the thesaurus for us? i made him sit down, told him i didnt like when guys did that, and to please not do it again for me, and told him that i could carry my own book.
 
I have always pictures how my perfect date I wish it happened but hey ...ok Im an oldfashion girl like most of you so walks on the beach is perfect for me but I love the rain I would like to sit and drink coffee or hot chocolate sitting by a fire talking all night.
 
I'm not one for the big fancy dates, though I'd love to go on some at one point or another! I wish I could find someone who'd be more than willing to just stay in and watch or movie or something....ok so it's kind of boring.

But I want someone who can actually carry a conversation.....I hate one sided kind of ones. But along with that, I'd like to just go outside on a walk and talk....sunset, forest, beach moonlight, water, sitting on a bench at night under the stars ::memories....::;)
 
Eeeek... um guys... well if i had to go out with one i would want to do something competitive and unique...



like.... sky diving or skiing in the Alps!!! i hate dates... they're so stuipd and annoying :rolleyes: if i had to go on a date--- it would be something WILD!!!!
 
ummm.... i dont know! but i want this guy to kiss me! though a date... Sunset just us two, on a beach holding hands just talking and being with each other, and kissing being romantic and old fashion
 
aliasjgfanaticmv said:
None for me. No one, nothing, nada, zip, zero, zilch, I will grow up old and bitter ^_^
awwwwww..........we dont want a bitter jo. for me, id like a gentleman to hold doors open, to carry books for me, and to bring me cards and flowers on our anniversaries. but..........GET REAL! how many ppl do u know that are like that? oh well.
 
Well, I haven't ever really been on a date. None that I would consider dates, at any rate. I'm old-fashioned too, and want to just be treated nicely. I'm lately considering not dating anyway, though. At any rate, I have 2 guy friends with whom I hang around constantly. They are so sweet to me (just in the friend way), and they ALWAYS hold the doors open for me. In fact, they get "angry" at me when I open doors. They are the perfect gentlemen, and when Mr. Right comes around, I want him to treat me the same way.
 
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