Ever lost a good friend?

murkywater said:
ahh. u guys make me sad. i don't understand how you continue in life. i mean when i have a lot of homework, i wanna die. :blush: :blush:
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aurgh, please don't EVER say you want to die. I know you may not mean it seriously, but your death effects the people you leave behind...TREMENDOUSLY.

And like aliaschick4mv said, everyone has a purpose, and people are crushed when someone dies. Someone dying should be taken seriously, not just laughed over like my firend Ryan's death was, or joked about like it didn't even happen. Today I was in the bathroom and I heard some girls joking about his death, and it made me sick in the stomach. In his case, I think it was selfish of him to do what he did, he hurt so many people.

Bondgal2007~ I know my words won't do much good, and I can't find the right words to tell you how sorry I am, I can't even begin to describe how much I feel right now.
 
Some people say that it is selfish and cowardly to kill yourself, which may be the case, but if you are pushed that far, that you would want to kill yourself, I think it would also take a great amount of courage. That is how I try to think of those who commit suicide, so that my last thoughts about them aren't bad ones.
 
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QUOTE (murkywater @ Mar 5 2003, 08:00 AM)
ahh. u guys make me sad. i don't understand how you continue in life. i mean when i have a lot of homework, i wanna die.

aurgh, please don't EVER say you want to die. I know you may not mean it seriously, but your death effects the people you leave behind...TREMENDOUSLY.

And like aliaschick4mv said, everyone has a purpose, and people are crushed when someone dies. Someone dying should be taken seriously, not just laughed over like my firend Ryan's death was, or joked about like it didn't even happen. Today I was in the bathroom and I heard some girls joking about his death, and it made me sick in the stomach. In his case, I think it was selfish of him to do what he did, he hurt so many people.

Bondgal2007~ I know my words won't do much good, and I can't find the right words to tell you how sorry I am, I can't even begin to describe how much I feel right now. I know!!!!!! There's nothing more painful than someone saying they want to die. I feel soooo sorry for you, and while I've never had a friend die, my best friend is suicidal at times (rarely now because she's on anti-depressants), and my ex-boyfriend was very suicidal. He had problems w/ self-mutilation, and I saw him beat himself up. I will never forget the sound... It's the scariest thing in the world to worry that you may never see someone you love again.

AliasJGFanaticMV, you are in my prayers, as are you, BondGal2007, and everyone else who is hurting.
 
SiriCerasi said:
Some people say that it is selfish and cowardly to kill yourself, which may be the case, but if you are pushed that far, that you would want to kill yourself, I think it would also take a great amount of courage. That is how I try to think of those who commit suicide, so that my last thoughts about them aren't bad ones.
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I'm not saying he was a bad person to have done that. He just acted too impulsively on his feelings, like he always did. I guess that's one reason I listen more to my head then my heart. I'm not trying to be mean about it or anything, I just think it was incredibly selfish of him not to think of how his death would affect everyone who knew him. And cowardly? No, he wasn't a coward.

Sometimes I feel like I'm in a dream, you know? I feel like, he's really still here, and I'll see him at school. But I realize he isn't. I keep expecting to see him, and reality hits me hard when I don't. I just wish I knew him better than I really did, he was such a great person.
 
I am truly blessed to that all of you have helped me so much! I mean I stiil hurt pretty badly, but I wanna recovery soon! I tell you I have been though a lot of hard times! Like most 9/11 was really hard on me! I lost somee loved in that! Alot of my family is sick or has cancer! My parents work so much, dad travels all the time, and my mom use to but has stopped but works at the office more! If you met me you'd be able to tell I that kind of person that would have that kind of life. I try to look towards thje future and keep myself busy with dance and kickboxing. Now I am starting to breal down, but thanks to you all I am not falling aprt as much as I would be. Emily is still with and I am alone and going to move on! There I said it, when Emily cried I 'd try t o cheer her up and you all have! And I would love it if some of you would AIM me or e-mail me! My AIM is MissFoxy2007! I barely have any Alias friends!
 
My attempt to quote and then write a message turned out badly, so I'll write again:

I know how horrible it is to have someone you love threaten suicide!! Please, everyone, even when you feel no one loves you, someone does!! It is the scariest feeling in the world to think that you may never see someone you love again... My best friend is depressed, and was suicidal for a long time. Thank goodness she is on medication now and much better. My ex-boyfriend was also very suicidal, and got into self-mutilation. I witnessed him beating himself up, and I will never forget the horrific sound. I'm sure it hurt me more than it hurt him.

AliasJGFanaticMV, my thoughts and prayers are with you, and BondGal2007. I pray that you, and anyone else who is hurting, will soon find happiness once again. :smiley:
 
I'm so sorry Bondgal! just remember that you should always remember her. that way she will never leave you. My cat got hit by a cat and we were REALLY close. It was like she was my sibling. anyways, your friend will be with you. cry if you need to. it soothes the pain. later on you will accept her death. just remember to live your life to the fullest and never forget her.
 
and your cats love you as well. my cat adored me. she slept in my bed every night and she loved me so much. when i sleep over at my friend's house or something my dad told me that she went around the house looking for me while meowing a whole lot.
 
I read a really good story once (a true one). I wish I hadn't deleted it, but here is the jist of it:

Two women were friends all their lives, from the time they were little girls until their own children were grown up. They, as most people do, wondered what really happened when you die. They made a solemn promise to eachother, that whomever died first, would find a way to make an azalea blossom in the winter, as a way of proving there is an "afterlife."

And then, one winter, one of the women died, from cancer, long before she should have. Her friend was devastated. A year went by, and winter came again, and with it snow. One day, the woman went outside, and in the midst of a snowpile, sat her azalea plant, blossoming for all the world to see.

~~~

See, your loved ones are always with you, as long as you never forget them. Keep them in your hearts, and you will never truly lose them. :smiley:
 
aww Im sorry :( But at least you can remember her. Be thankful that you knew her for as long as you did :smiley:

And I'll talk to you for as long as I'm here!
 

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