Has anybody else seen "The Unbearable Lightness of Being?" I just got it on DVD. Lena Olin is wonderful as Sabina, an uninhibited bohemian painter. Well, she does have one inhibition: a deep fear of intimacy and permanence. She doesn't like to stay in one place -- or with any one person -- for too long. In one of the best scenes in the movie, her latest lover, Franz, shows up at her door saying that he has left his wife for her (she even helped him pack, he says). He asks Sabina if he can stay with her. Sensing that she is uncomfortable, he offers to come back the next day. Sabina is in tears. When Franz returns the next day, he finds her apartment empty.