SB201717's Guy Problem

Should I pick Joe or Ben to go Out With?

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  • Joe

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  • I think you should pick someone else!

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What? The break up? Well, just try to get close to Joe. If you're pretty sure Joe would say yes, then dump ben as lightly as you can, and wait a week or two and ask Joe out.

Think about it this way - if you liked Ben and he likes this other girl a lot (even more then he likes you), what would you want him to do?
 
Just stay with Ben for a little while. If you think that the relationship isn't really getting along, then dump him and hook up with Joe. If it's still going OK then don't.

Here's my guy problem:
One of my guy friends, Michael, said he had a major crush on me on Tuesday. I tried to ignore the fact that he liked me by keeping quiet about it and not telling anyone because I knew my friends would try hooking us up and everything. But then on Friday he asked me out on a date for Tuesday and I told him I'd think about it. And I can't ignore that. I've only thought of him as a friend, not a boyfriend, and I'm not really attracted to him.(Mainly because my mind's on John, my best guy friend who I've had got a crush on forever. But I have a feeling he likes my friend Jennifer, but Jennifer likes Michael. So basically, I like John, John probably likes Jennifer, Jennifer likes Michael, but Michael likes me.) So should I say yes or no? Please help me... :( :confused: :( :confused: :(

I know how you feel Sydney Bristow201717, I feel so lost too. :( :( :(

Sorry this post is so long.
 
Here's my two cents now that i have a little picture...meditate on it. seriously...like...take a pic of both guys...set it on the floor...light a candle (well, you don't have to do that)...and then just sit down and focus on a sound or something...not the pics...that's why there's a flame...so you can focus on that. when you've reached a point where you've lost all your thoughts and you have an empty mind...focus on the question of joe? or ben? that might work.
 
for sydney bristow 201717, like charlie said, get to know Joe first. i mean get closer to him... even now try talking to him more telling him that you really like him (i dunno if its advisable to tell him you likelike him while you are still going out with ben) and yeah... really analyze what you dont like about ben and if you dont know why you are dating him, then maybe drop it because you should only be with someone if you really like it or you know why the heck you are going out with them. good luck with that. btw i dont like the like of this crystal girl :blink:

and sydney rox... you poor thing, its a love quadrangle!! go on the date with michael, and see if you like him or not... and tell him (if you're not) that you dont feel comfortable and maybe you should (for now at least) take it as friends. because you do like john...

good luck gals... hope it all works out

(btw i have never had a boyfriend. how sad. but its definitely my school. all asian guys that like all asian girls, not that asian girls are bad or anything. im indian.)
 
vaughneya

don't feel bad about not having a boyfriend. i totally understand where you're coming from. but hey, it's ok. ythat means that you don't have to spend the time or the energy chasing after a guy who would probably end up being an as****e anywas. For you girls suffering from a dilemma, this doesn't apply to you. i have a feeling THOSE guys aren't as*****s. good luck!
 
well...if they want you for your looks...yea...and they deserve to be hurt by my four sided cheese grater (heh heh)
if they want you cuz of other reasons...well...have them go through me first...hehe
 
I think you should meditate to find out what you truly want. if you wanted to become a study-freak...go ahead...but don't allow yourself to NOT have fun...that's not the way to go...you still need a social net when you go to college ya kno?
 
ur choice...do what you want...heck...call both of them up..have them over at your house...and explain the dilemma...that's when they'll say how THEY feel about you...
 
:confused: :( :thinking: :o_O: :o_O: 🇳🇴 :Paranoid: :nervous:

I still don't know what to do... Some of my friends say I absolutely should say yes, some say I really shouldn't, and others say that they don't know.:banghead: IT'S DRIVING ME CRAZY!!!:o_O: :madfire: AND I HAVE ONE MORE DAY TO DECIDE!!! :confused: :( :confused: :( :confused: Please help help me out...post either YES or NO.

Maybe I could go undercover for the rest of my miserable life... :Ph34r:
 
Joe's at his dad's house which is an hour away. He won't admit anything to me instantly not even at my house and not with Ben. Ben like a street away from me but his parents won't encourge anything between us and it's about 15 degrees outside!
 
its like 50 degrees outside here! lol
oh sydney rox, go on the date! JUST DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and see how it turns out
i think you guys should just analyze what you really want and what would be practical. that was stupid. you need to just talk to the people you like. if you know them well enuf, it shouldnt be so hard.
 
YEA...go on the date...just make it a dinner between friends...nothing more...nothing less...i mean...don't have an awkward silence...just be a friend...if you make it all awkward...you'll never solve this porblem
 
BizzutyBobby, when he asked me out on the date, his exact words were, "cuz I wanna be more than just friends..." How am I supposed to act like a friend if he wants me to be his girlfriend?!?!? :confused:

Anyways...I said yes to the date. It's gonna be tomorrow, so I'll tell you how it goes. :( -_- ^_^ :smiley:
 
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