Even worse...I live in a middle class town and all the locals know each other. So we can see a kid and know whom they are, and name the specific kid(135 homes). We all give extra stuff to the local kids. It is the vultures from other areas that get me pissed off. I normally ask them where are you from? I don't mind so much parents that bring little kids, and I have them take a candy from the bowl. I give them small candy bars for them, but tell the kids to take a hand full (3-4). Now for the local kids I give the large bars like: Reese Peanut Butter Cups (2 cups), Three Musketeers Candy Bar, Snickers Bar, Milky way Candy Bar, and Kit Kat Bar. I let them pick what they want as well, sometimes I give them two bars. I normally go to Cosco and buy a box of each type of candy and then buy two mini bar bags for the others. What really kills me is the older kids that show up and some don't even dress up, but come with a pillow case or trash bag. They really kill me.!My community is pretty safe we have a number of law enforcement neighbors (Police, NJ State Troopers, US Marshals, as well as few DAs). Most if not all of them are my friends, are ex-military, and all our kids are friends as well, and many of them were BSA Scout Master and Merit Badge instructors with me. We all work together to make it a real community for everyone.