I've lost freinds to death before. My freind Maggie died when she was 9, my younger cousin Gage died when he was 3, a freind of mine's relative (who was only in his thirties or so) commited suicide, and I've 'witnessed' the deaths of people I don't even know in my dreams. In the whole world people die every day, but the way I comfort myself and my freinds is to remember that everything was ment to be. If I die tomorrow I'd rather that noone mourned. It's like an adventure, life and all, so you have to live while you can, and let it go when you can't. If you notice, on my signiture, it says "Live like you'll live forever and love like you'll die tomorrow", I don't know who said that first but that is what I live by every second...the fact that life is only so short, and you ought to live each day to it's fullest. Your freind died? Well, I certainly would think that, if she really was your freind, she would want you to acknoledge and remember her, and then go on with life with her in your heart.