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Ever lost a good friend?

Discussion in 'Open Chat' started by Bondgal2007, Mar 2, 2003.

  1. Bondgal2007

    Bondgal2007 Rocket Ranger

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    Ok this is not related to ALias at all but I need advice! One of my best friends just died form cancer! her name was Emily and was only 14 and loved life. She was so sweet and loved ALias too! She didn't deserve to die early butGod chose to take her. I feel lost and sad. But how do I act? I have lost relative, vut all of them were older andI din't know them really well! Please give me advice! I am really blue and need some help!
     
  2. spysurfergrl247

    spysurfergrl247 Rocket Ranger

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    :( Well i dont know what to tell you cause ive had like 5 friends that have moved away but one thing you can do is try to move on and i know it sounds like i just got it out of a movie but realy in your life your gonna meet millions of people who are gonna be friendly and some not but thats life isnt it!!And if Emily was your best friend than shes not gone at all shes always with you!! ;) ^_^ :)
     
  3. aliasjgfanaticmv

    aliasjgfanaticmv Rocket Ranger

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    That's true. I don't really know what to say. My friend Ryan died a few days ago, but we weren't so close, but we were still good friends. All I can say is, don't shut people out who try to talk to about it and remember all the times you had together. Keep her close to you in your heart and she'll always be with you.
     
  4. Crawstinium

    Crawstinium Rocket Ranger

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    i'm so sorry
    you can take some of her best qualities and try to preserve her spirit by keeping alive those parts of her in you if she loved life, take part of her love for life and love life even more for her!
     
  5. Bondgal2007

    Bondgal2007 Rocket Ranger

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    How do you deal with it? I feel lost and it's like I am back at September 11. I lost, I lost 6 loved ones! Imean this is really hitting me hard! I can't even think about Alias!
     
  6. Aliasgirl47

    Aliasgirl47 Rocket Ranger

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    well, my best friend was alyssa and we had been best friends since 2nd grade. last year she was murdered and i don't really want to go into the details. but i cried and cried and cried till i had run out of tears. and then i was mad and i wanted the person to die. but then i thought that she wouldn't want me to feel that way. she lived everyday of her life to the fullest and would want me to do the same. and i don't know if it would help you but try to think of the good times. i do that and they always make me laugh or smile. i know it feels like a piece of you is missing. but remember that she helped make you who you are and that no one can ever take that away from you.
     
  7. Bondgal2007

    Bondgal2007 Rocket Ranger

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    If anyone you have seen Daredevil. You might remember when she was walking at her father's funeral the music playing in the background. It was "My Immortal" by Evanscence. I am listening to it now and it helps. It's about losing a loved one and knowing there still here and that your not alone!
     
  8. Lilly

    Lilly Rocket Ranger

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    Goodbye is not forever, u will see ur friend again. She is always with u, remember that, she is listening and with u! Never forget her but live for her! Have a good life for ur friend, and she will smiile and remember u!
     
  9. aliasjgfanaticmv

    aliasjgfanaticmv Rocket Ranger

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    I know what you mean, about the song My Immortal, I feel the same way. My friend Ryan commited suicide a few days ago like I said....He was so smart and so nice to everyone. And it does feel like a part of you is gone with them.
     
  10. spysurfergrl247

    spysurfergrl247 Rocket Ranger

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    Oh this is so freaky and at the same time sad :confused: Im listening to that song right now :o :o hitrue i am!!!God i almost start to cry when ever i hear it!! -_- :confused: :( I lose almost everyone who i get close to so i dont know what to say!!! :unsure: :unsure: But life keeps going right?!! :)
     
  11. Natalie

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    I'm so sorry to here that... :(

    I've almost died of canser as like your friend, then I've almost commited suaside more 5 times :no: ... But you know what keeps me here? Even when everyone around you is dieing, leaveing and straying away from you, there is someone who will NEVER leave you, that person is God. I know when people die that is what God ment to be, even if we don't like it. Your friend is somewhere where she happy, and you should be glad that she dose not have to suffer here. Though you suffer over her loss, don't worry, your not alone in the dark. Don't keep it in if you ever feel sad, let it go... listen to me, I know...
     
  12. Sunfire_77

    Sunfire_77 Rocket Ranger

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    I am so sorry for your lose bondgal. Like a56 said she is in a better place. She isn't suffereing no more.

    Remember the way she loved life and remember that she is their even though you dont see her. Shes in your heart and mind. Life will go on and so will she. You will see her again.
    God has a purpose for everyone :)
     
  13. aliaschick4mv

    aliaschick4mv Rocket Ranger

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    I had a friend of mine die of cancer over the summer. We weren't that close, but it still hit me pretty hard. It must be a lot worse for you if she was your best friend. After my friend died I wrote this poem about it, and it kinda sucks, but I dunno, maybe it'll make you feel better, or maybe you can just relate to it: BTW Copyright 2002 by ME!

    I don’t know where you are now
    But I’m sure it’s someplace great
    Blue skies, green grass, and daisies
    And a great big chocolate cake

    I don’t know where you are now
    But I’m sure it’s someplace cool
    Where everyone is happy
    And there are no inflicting rules

    I don’t know where you are now
    But I just want you to know
    That everyone here loves you
    And our hearts followed in tow

    So we hope that you may here this
    Wherever you may be
    And know that we all love you
    And hope you’re happy as can be


    This girl, my friend? She was the sweetest girl on the planet, and never said anything bad about anyone. And there is no doubt in my mind that she was put on this Earth to teach us all a message. We all have a lesson to teach others, but her's was so strong because she only had a short time to be there. Everyone has a purpose and everything happens for a reason. I think your friend was sent down to teach you something, no matter what it was. Never forget that lesson. Teach it to others. She'll always be with you.
     
  14. MVISAHOTTIE

    MVISAHOTTIE Rocket Ranger

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    :( that is so sweet :(
     
  15. Blackavar

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    I've lost freinds to death before. My freind Maggie died when she was 9, my younger cousin Gage died when he was 3, a freind of mine's relative (who was only in his thirties or so) commited suicide, and I've 'witnessed' the deaths of people I don't even know in my dreams. In the whole world people die every day, but the way I comfort myself and my freinds is to remember that everything was ment to be. If I die tomorrow I'd rather that noone mourned. It's like an adventure, life and all, so you have to live while you can, and let it go when you can't. If you notice, on my signiture, it says "Live like you'll live forever and love like you'll die tomorrow", I don't know who said that first but that is what I live by every second...the fact that life is only so short, and you ought to live each day to it's fullest. Your freind died? Well, I certainly would think that, if she really was your freind, she would want you to acknoledge and remember her, and then go on with life with her in your heart.
     
  16. pasta_sauce385

    pasta_sauce385 Rocket Ranger

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    i'm so sorry about the loss of your friend bondgal, i've never really had anyone close die before but i'm sure that this must be devastating for you. I guess there really isn't anything you can say when things like this happen, just remember to be thankful that you were able to spend the time that you did with her.
     
  17. alias_fan

    alias_fan typically terrific

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    i didn't lose A good friend i GAVE UP my 3 best friends and i know my life is supposed to be better by it by i still feel like felgercarb with anything whatsoever related to them and when i see them i'm in hell. i try to forget about them but it haunts me every day of my life and i know that they ruined my life and i'll never be able to get back what they took from me. ok this doesn't give any advice it makes me feel sorry for myself again... nevermind. but when i lost my grandmother who i loved i was really sad and i just thought to live life to the fullest.
     
  18. GO Syd

    GO Syd Rocket Ranger

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    when u say lost a friend do u mean by death or just ended the friendship cuz i have had a friendship end with one of my closest friends
     
  19. alias_fan

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    she means death.
     
  20. GO Syd

    GO Syd Rocket Ranger

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    oooo cuz that hasnt happened to me
     

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