SecretAgentMan
Caution: Beware of Male
lol guess not
I need some advice
- Thread starter SecretAgentMan
- Start date
- Status
wildwildrae
Cadet
i was thinking that when you said "ending up alone" teeheecrazy spinster said:well, i'm not called crazy spinster for nothing.
okay, here's my advice... If you like your job, unless she seems interested, I wouldn't risk the job for her. But hey, sometimes it's good to throw caution to the wind. Ya know?
eh, spinster we should start a convent. crazy spinsters inc.
Rach
crazy spinster
Cadet
YES! WE SHOULD!! i've always told my friends that i should start a convent but the big twist would be that my nuns and i would be fashionable sisters with stylish and comfortable habits.wildwildrae said:
and, btw, i LOVE your sig rach. that commercial makes me laugh every single time. :lol:
anyway, sorry that was wildly off topic. hmm... secretagentman - let us know how it goes, kay?
SecretAgentMan
Caution: Beware of Male
yeah I'll let you know what happens. I really don't want to mess up our friendship and work relationship though. This is going to requrie alot of thinking.
wildwildrae
Cadet
i would totally agree. stylish habits, my thoughts exactly.crazy spinster said:
teehee... does anyone know when the water show is?!
wildwildrae
Cadet
yeah, i hope everything goes okay. you're our only hope for a romance around here late night!SecretAgentMan said:
(no pressure...)crazy spinster
Cadet
yeah, which is why you should just try to let it evolve naturally from a friendship to a more personal relationship. and the group outing thing helps out with that, in my opinion. or, you could do what i advised nic to do - take her out on a more fun date like miniature golfing (instead of going to india looking for nukesSecretAgentMan said:
), bowling, pool, etc so that it feels less like a date and more like a night out with a friend. ^_^and going off topic again...
they should put up a sign or something that says when the water show is!! :lol:
wildwildrae
Cadet
yeah, i like the idea of a fun date. I know if I was a tid bit timid, I'd want a fun "friend date" to sort of break the ice. I suggest something unorthodox. She'll find you interesting and suave!
off...
come on honey...barkey's not feeling well...
off...
come on honey...barkey's not feeling well...
SecretAgentMan
Caution: Beware of Male
well, thank you!
wildwildrae
Cadet
no prob sam! (hope it's okay for me too!)
Rach
Rach
I think it's really good if you're able to think about it objectiveSecretAgentMan said:
(I know you can't think 100% objective about such problems)
Ok this now might sound a little bit hard but you should be sure that she's "worth" to risk your job and her friendship...Don't you have a friend who knows her and can give you some advice??? I mean if you have crush on someone it's hard to think logical....
well i woudl love to help SAM but... ive nevr had a bf... i would love tooo!!! i ahve a really BIG crush though.. but all my friends come to me.. and i dont knwo.. sry sam... if i give u advice itll be the wriong one.. and being it at work.. it might be weird .. and i could totally screw tings up!
SecretAgentMan
Caution: Beware of Male
She said no because she didn't want to see a movie. Apparently she's not really a movie person. She doesn't have a boyfriend and has plenty of time to do stuff.
SecretAgentMan
Caution: Beware of Male
i've known her for more than two years now, but we're still learning things about each other. Thanks for the advice.
SecretAgentMan
Caution: Beware of Male
lol shame on you! I'm way over her anyways.
ILoveVartan
Cadet
question what about JAMiE?
- Status
