Mountaineer_1281
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Been there and done that! I completely agree with you SpyGurl001.
BUT, it's the redeeming qualities - few as they may be - that are what attracted us in the first place.
Nice Guys Finish First
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Been there and done that! I completely agree with you SpyGurl001.
BUT, it's the redeeming qualities - few as they may be - that are what attracted us in the first place.
Betha Bristow
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this guy i know named blake is ALWAYS liek that to this girl named loretta. he's so nice just so he can be with her and she isnt aware of it. he does everything so carefully and makes all these stupid jokes and she giggles like i dunno what. :hmm: its annoying.
SecretAgentMan
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he's a player
mrsassypants
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u what
Elizabeth_dj
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AWWWWW ^_^Bradhadair said:
VaughnFan13
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You have to be kidding! Are you saying girls could care less about personality? I go for a guy that seems interesting. He's got to have a good personality! I mean, there's no way I'd go out with someone who would say things like, "a girl's place is in the home, not at a career" or something! I mean, sure the guy has to be at least decent looking, but looks arent everything! And I sure as hell dont care about how much money a guy has! I'm not exactly rich, and I probably wouldn't want to go after someone who has a ton of money. Money means nothing to me. So, at least for me, you've got that scale all wrong.Street_Soldier said:
And I suppose your scale for guys doesnt include the guys in my high school, because they definetly (sp) care about looks.
But, for both girls and guys, if you're popular or w/e will make a difference on if someone goes out with a person, at least at my school
VaughnFan13
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My first boyfriend was one of my guy friends ho i was really close with, so we're not all like that. it depends on the person.Mountaineer_1281 said:
MVISAHOTTIE
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I love nice guys!
Mountaineer_1281
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And I agree! And a lot of girls do like the nice guys. But like I said, if the nice guy really does finish last, it's not because girls don't view them as worthy of their time or fun to be with. It's because nice guys are the one's to settle down with.
"Bad boys" are a challenge, they're the guys that girls shouldn't go out with. And you have to admit that most girls/women enjoy a good challenge. Whether it's intellectually or whatever (which is generally where the good guys come in - although I have some great friends who I wouldn't particularly date, but they're fun guys who I enjoy hanging out with, and while they're not of the "good guy" persona, one in particular enjoys a nice intellectual challenge and I'm more than happy to comply). "Bad boys" do have nice sides, they have redeeming qualities. That doesn't make them long term, though.
And in some instances, girls out go out with the "bad boy" because their parents don't like him - this generally happens in high school, when that rebellious stage hits. And some women are just attracted to that kind of persona. It's either broken as the girl grows or not, it all depends on the person - like you said.
FuNnYcHiCkEn
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gimme a nice guy anyday!!
mrsassypants
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what u on about
SecretAgentMan
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jerks/players get to have fun and what they want. Nice guys continue being nice until one day they've had enough.....
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