SkyGirl5
Cadet
Nothing's Ever Easy
Genre: S/V, AU
Summary: Sometimes just because someone lives through something, it doesn't mean they survive.
Sequel to That Summer
14 Chapters (plus prologue and epilogue)
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Prologue (below) Chapter 1 Chapter 2 Chapter 3 Chapter 4 Chapter 5 Chapter 6 Chapter 7 Chapter 8
Chapter 9 Chapter 10 Chapter 11 Chapter 12 Chapter 13 Chapter 14 + Epilogue
Prologue
Sometimes just because someone survives something, doesn’t necessarily mean they live through it. A strange concept, I know. It sounds ridiculous and impossible and if I hadn’t had a first hand experience with it, I wouldn’t have believed it either. ‘Survive’ and ‘live through’ seem to be synonyms, don’t they? Well, that’s because they are, in the physical sense anyway, but just because someone’s still breathing and their heart is still beating, doesn’t mean they’re the same someone.
You see, sometimes when a person had brain surgery or an aneurysm or another brain-affecting medical incident, their personality changes. I’m not sure if there is a medical explanation for this, and most likely, even if there was, I wouldn’t understand it anyway. All I know is that it happens; it happened right before my eyes.
For some people, they were once very timid or shy and then they become very outgoing and talkative. Others used to be sweet natured people but turned… well, I wouldn’t say mean, but less sweet. Still others went from outgoing to timid and any other type of personality switch you could think of.
When someone’s personality changes so, it’s very difficult for everyone involved. They’re the same person physically, but it doesn’t seem that way because a personality is who that person really is. So, in a way, it’s like they’re a different person; like part of them – their old personality – died and a new one was reborn in it’s place.
This change, though not the fault of the now different person, causes great strain on the people who knew them the best. It’s hard to understand, hard to deal with. You become conflicted. On one hand, the person you loved and who you though was dying is alive and it’s wonderful, but its not the same person.
Personality shifts have caused the break up and/or stress of many relationships and families. It’s hard; I know first hand just how hard it is. It’s one of those things that are so hard some days you just want to give up because you can’t take it anymore. You want to give up, but you don’t; you can’t. But sometimes, on the better days, a glimmer of what that person once was shines through and then, in that moment, it all becomes worth it.
Genre: S/V, AU
Summary: Sometimes just because someone lives through something, it doesn't mean they survive.
Sequel to That Summer
14 Chapters (plus prologue and epilogue)
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Prologue (below) Chapter 1 Chapter 2 Chapter 3 Chapter 4 Chapter 5 Chapter 6 Chapter 7 Chapter 8
Chapter 9 Chapter 10 Chapter 11 Chapter 12 Chapter 13 Chapter 14 + Epilogue
Prologue
Sometimes just because someone survives something, doesn’t necessarily mean they live through it. A strange concept, I know. It sounds ridiculous and impossible and if I hadn’t had a first hand experience with it, I wouldn’t have believed it either. ‘Survive’ and ‘live through’ seem to be synonyms, don’t they? Well, that’s because they are, in the physical sense anyway, but just because someone’s still breathing and their heart is still beating, doesn’t mean they’re the same someone.
You see, sometimes when a person had brain surgery or an aneurysm or another brain-affecting medical incident, their personality changes. I’m not sure if there is a medical explanation for this, and most likely, even if there was, I wouldn’t understand it anyway. All I know is that it happens; it happened right before my eyes.
For some people, they were once very timid or shy and then they become very outgoing and talkative. Others used to be sweet natured people but turned… well, I wouldn’t say mean, but less sweet. Still others went from outgoing to timid and any other type of personality switch you could think of.
When someone’s personality changes so, it’s very difficult for everyone involved. They’re the same person physically, but it doesn’t seem that way because a personality is who that person really is. So, in a way, it’s like they’re a different person; like part of them – their old personality – died and a new one was reborn in it’s place.
This change, though not the fault of the now different person, causes great strain on the people who knew them the best. It’s hard to understand, hard to deal with. You become conflicted. On one hand, the person you loved and who you though was dying is alive and it’s wonderful, but its not the same person.
Personality shifts have caused the break up and/or stress of many relationships and families. It’s hard; I know first hand just how hard it is. It’s one of those things that are so hard some days you just want to give up because you can’t take it anymore. You want to give up, but you don’t; you can’t. But sometimes, on the better days, a glimmer of what that person once was shines through and then, in that moment, it all becomes worth it.