Does anyone have abusive parents?

Reading this makes me really happy of the kind of parents I have. Just remember we're praying for you, and hope your dad and friends or neighbors all find a way to stop abusing people. Although I don't have parents like that please feel free to talk. My best friend in the sixth grade moved because she was being abused and I didn't even know it. After it came out it really helped her to talk about it to me. Now she's living a better life with her dad.
 
SydB_JenG said:
AliasHombre said:
I decided never to drink in my life like a few years ago when i was 12 i think.
same here *high fives AliasHombre*...if you make the desicion before...then when you are in that situation your mind is already made up and you dont even have to think about it...its just an automatic "no"
i am so with you there! no drink, no drugs. clean for me.
 
exactly (however i might get a little tipsy wednesday and thursday night---four cups of wine per night what do u expect (its passover))
 
I drink... but not often and not much. And I will NEVER get behind the wheel if I have even just a sip of wine. And I don't handle alcohol like most people... it makes me nauseous, so obviously I don't ever have much.

But anyways... about the parents. My mom has arthritis, so she used to hit me and my sibs with a wooden spoon... until she broke one. Then she used a slipper. She's stopped now, thankfully... considering my little brother is 16 and outweighs her by over 100 lbs (he's a chunk). She yelled at me a lot, though, and used to tell me all the time that I was stupid. I finally told her that if she thought i was so stupid, I should just drop out of school, 'cause it'd just be a waste of money. And then she stopped that. Now she yells at me, then tells me "well, fine, it's your life." I always reply, "so why did you spend the past 10 minutes yelling at me?" And we just laugh it off. My dad stresses her out a lot, and since I'm around the most, she takes it out on me. My dad used to hit us with a leather belt... not the metal buckle end. If I ever have kids, I swear I'm never going to hit them. I don't even believe in hitting pets.

So my parents aren't bad anymore, but I suffer from sibling abuse. I'm the middle of 3 kids, and my sister isn't that bad, 'cause she's always at work and the worst she calls me is "nerd" and "hippie", but my brother! He's a few inches taller than me, and over 100 lbs heavier than me, and when he gets angry, he pushes me around. Thankfully, I run faster than him, so I go hide out in my room... but when he gets mad, the whole house rumbles. It's scary.

I used to work at a Walgreens, and there were parents in there all the time, hitting their kids. I mean, it's bad enough to hit your kid, but in public? That just embarrasses you. :::shivers:::
 
yah i saw this websitecorporal punishment page about parents and teachers beating children-very sad

Very very sad.

For a while, I wanted to be a child psychologist and help battered children... but all I would do is cry. It makes me so sad to see children being beaten. I get really angry if anyone in my family tries to hit my dog too. I was at Walmart the other day, and in the parking lot, there were like 5 separate parents yelling at their children. I think one mom was spanking her screaming kid. I just shook my head. It's really depressing.
 
Alias 56 said:
Yes I have this problem, with my paernts and all my neighbors :eek: Infact I got chased by a mad man yesterday! He was my neighbor, I hid in the woods while he looked for me but then my other neighbor's chased me out of the woods... It's not like I have anywhere safe to go :(
That horrible!! You should have called the cops or something! That should NOT happen!
 
same here but you know what I think that many times parents yell unreasonably and that kids should stand up to them...i really admire that b/c a lot of times ppl brush it off even minor things. I thing it is important to stand up even if it does mean you might put yourself at risk
 
Oh my gosh...I feel so blessed now...my parents have never even yelled at me...let alone hit me...I admire you guys so much for being strong through all of this. I wish there was something i could do...parents hitting their kids is just wrong and i want to slit the throat of every single parent who does that....
 
SydB_JenG said:
Oh my gosh...I feel so blessed now...my parents have never even yelled at me...let alone hit me...I admire you guys so much for being strong through all of this. I wish there was something i could do...parents hitting their kids is just wrong and i want to slit the throat of every single parent who does that....
Wow, the slitting throat sounds familiar, lol. But this subject is no laughing matter, if you are being abused you need to do something about it, call the cops, call a social worker, just do something, don't let yourself to continue to be beaten until possibly sooner or later you'll end up in the hospital, because abusive parents aren't right, and it's not fair to take it out on their kids, so hopefully something will be done.
 
but then what would happen?...they could be sent to foster homes that could turn out even worse...im sure most of you dont want to make a totally life-altering decision when you're 14-17...and you shouldnt have to...I really dont know what i would do in your position...
 
SydB_JenG said:
but then what would happen?...they could be sent to foster homes that could turn out even worse...im sure most of you dont want to make a totally life-altering decision when you're 14-17...and you shouldnt have to...I really dont know what i would do in your position...
I'm not saying this for you to do, but if I was being abused, I would take the chances and get moved to a foster home, I know it could be worse but I would take it anyway, I would move from every foster home till I can live on my own, that's what I would do, but I'm not you, you make the decision, it's your life
 
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