SB201717's Guy Problem

[SydneyBristow201717]

My poll on the boys I like!

 

[Jonathan]

Joe.

If you are feeling longings for someone else while with Ben, it is silly to continue seeing him.

My $0.02

 

[Codename]

I say Joe too sounds better!

 

[SydneyBristow201717]

Does anyone know how I can approch the break-up stage and starting to get with Joe?

 

[AliasALIAS]

I say Ben. It's a hunch.

Are you sure that when you break away from Ben's arms and run into Joe's that he'll be there to catch you? If not, what if Ben's arms stay crossed and won't accept you back? And if Joe does like you, will Ben still like you after breaking up with him for another guy? Is it worth losing a friend?

Make sure you have the answers to these questions. Hope this helps.

 

[Codename]

yep you wouldn't want to fall to the ground that would hurt!

 

[Azhria Lilu]

I say Ben. It's a hunch.

Are you sure that when you break away from Ben's arms and run into Joe's that he'll be there to catch you? If not, what if Ben's arms stay crossed and won't accept you back? And if Joe does like you, will Ben still like you after breaking up with him for another guy? Is it worth losing a friend?

Make sure you have the answers to these questions. Hope this helps.

Exactly. Don't go for Joe unless you are 99% certain he will go out w/ you and not dump you after 2 weeks (then what would you do?)

 

[SydneyBristow201717]

I know. But I don't even think his PARENTS like me! Joe's parent's do. They would support us going out. Ben's wouldn't. I don't want to lose Ben as a friend. And I probably will. I'm not sure he'll want me back either. Joe might (if we got together) after two weeks dump me.

 

[Natalie]

This happens to you all the time, dose it not?

 

[SydneyBristow201717]

Yeah. The only thing I can really depend on is my parents, school and being teased by idiots. But, my hard work will pay off in the long run.

 

[BizzutyBobby]

dude...it's ur choice in the end...how's this...tell us more about Joe or Ben...and i'll get back to you when i analyze the info...trust me on this...my instincts are usually write...of course you're going to have to take that on faith...

 

[SydneyBristow201717]

Ben is: He's a really sweet guy, not that cute but sweet. He is an obesssive LOTR fan and like writing fantasy stories. The thing is I don't think his parent's like me and his parent's won't let him watch Alias! WEIRD!!!

Joe is: Sweet, Cute and smart. His parent's really like me and we are both into spy stuff! Military, Spying, Famous Shipwreks. We both like them! He supports my dreams of working in the CIA and knows I have to work hard in school. He know he does to if he wants to get into the Naval Acdemey. We talk about cool stuff all the time! I eat lunch with him... and Ben! Are dad's work together so I might get to eat dinner with him one night! And... He's watched things 10,000 times gory and violent than Alias will ever. Parent Approved!

 

[SydneyRox]

Go with Joe. ^_^

Hey SydneyBristow201717, is it OK if I post one of my guy problems here?

 

[Azhria Lilu]

Go w/ Joe, but be aware that you could loose them both.

 

[SydneyRox]

I say go with what your heart tells you to do. ( I know, it's a little corny...)

 

[SydneyBristow201717]

Of course SydneyRox. You can post one of your guy problems. That's what I 'll do to pay you back! So you think I should go with Joe? h34r:

 

[SydneyBristow201717]

I'm just so unsure! I don't know what to do! I feel so lost!

 

[Azhria Lilu]

Go with Joe but don't abandon Ben yet. Just try to get close to Joe. Oh, and try not to ask out Joe just after dumping Ben if you do do that.

 

[SydneyBristow201717]

Are you sure. Should I do it after winter break?

 

[SydneyBristow201717]

Should I do it after winter break? I mean break up with Ben after winter break. t's a new year. clean slate. new guy. better guy. cuter guy.