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Victoria King said:
nothing is different i dont think, im still as odd as i was then(and he saw that side definatly i mean i hit him with a shoe and fought him for a piece of crust off pizza, fun times!LOL)i dont know what is different, well here is more info that might help you help me(lol!) he is two years younger then me and when we talked first on line it was like hi tehn bye then the second time we talked it was like six hours!and that carried on for like two weeks then im here with no talking now! i mean we will start talking then he will be like i have to go then put up an away message! and he is still open i mean he told me about his ex-girlfriend which really hurt me!!but oh well!thanks for the help guys!!!
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k, he is probly intimidated by you being older. Make him feel like he is...well, it sounds bad, but, in control. He probly feels like it is a privilege to be with you, not a right. Make him feel like the feelings are mutual
 
AgentNicBristow said:
iL0v3vAuGhN said:
oy i got a question...would u rather drool over a chick or stare at her?.....take that wikky!
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uhh...literraly drool?lol..definetly stare. :D
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no..kinda hypothetically....not drol but like think bout it so much thats its like.....aaaahhhh yeah...eheh....u dont gotta answer that if u dont wanna
 
AgentNicBristow said:
k, he is probly intimidated by you being older. Make him feel like he is...well, it sounds bad, but, in control. He probly feels like it is a privilege to be with you, not a right. Make him feel like the feelings are mutual
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thanks for all the advice!and i know what you mean because most guys want to be in charge but tahts why i like the younger guys because i dont feel intimidated myself and feel like im five(mostly because of my height!LOL!) okay but now that i want him to know that i like him, how do i say this?!thanks and sorry if im such a dork at this!lol :P
 
yeah...sorta like us girls do u know..like think bout her dream bout her adn stuff..like htink bout her 24-7...wow...vaughn..::drools at he thought of vaughh::
 
Victoria King said:
AgentNicBristow said:
k, he is probly intimidated by you being older. Make him feel like he is...well, it sounds bad, but, in control. He probly feels like it is a privilege to be with you, not a right. Make him feel like the feelings are mutual
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thanks for all the advice!and i know what you mean because most guys want to be in charge but tahts why i like the younger guys because i dont feel intimidated myself and feel like im five(mostly because of my height!LOL!) okay but now that i want him to know that i like him, how do i say this?!thanks and sorry if im such a dork at this!lol :P
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start small. Ask him if he wants to hang out, then later to the movies. after things seem like they are working out, dinner. You dont have to say "do you wanna be my boyfriend?". just dumb.
 
iL0v3vAuGhN said:
yeah...sorta like us girls do u know..like think bout her dream bout her adn stuff..like htink bout her 24-7...wow...vaughn..::drools at he thought of vaughh::
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obsessing is fun, a good thing. I obsess about this girl in my math class all day.
 
AgentNicBristow said:
start small. Ask him if he wants to hang out, then later to the movies. after things seem like they are working out, dinner. You dont have to say "do you wanna be my boyfriend?". just dumb.
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i kind of figured that would be suicide to say hey i do you want to be my boyfriend!LOL, but i just dont know how to bring up and to see if he has a girlfriend, i dont know that and i dont want to go into that if he does! so if my friends are all going to a movie or hanging out watching movies, would it be okay to ask him if he wanted to come with? or no? ;) thanks again, im sorry i usually dont ask guys out like this but i really like him!lol
 
Victoria King said:
AgentNicBristow said:
start small. Ask him if he wants to hang out, then later to the movies. after things seem like they are working out, dinner. You dont have to say "do you wanna be my boyfriend?". just dumb.
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so if my friends are all going to a movie or hanging out watching movies, would it be okay to ask him if he wanted to come with? or no? ;) thanks again, im sorry i usually dont ask guys out like this but i really like him!lol
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perfect situation to ask him..go for it :D
 
thanks guys!i may have to beg one of my friends to arrange alittle movie/pizza night this weekend!LOL!!and yeah go syd, why did you get put on probation?just wondering if you cant answer i understand!
thanks again guys!
 
AgentNicBristow said:
Victoria King said:
i have a question! okay i like this guy and we were talking alot on line and he even asked me out to see a movie but then nothing else was said about then, then a week went by, i asked about the movie and now we have barely talked and ever time i try talking he doesnt say that much(all of our talking is online, but i know him in the real world to not that internet isnt real!LOL,confusing i know!) im completly lost on what to do and i really like him?!any suggestions or insights!?
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okay, he likes you, but he probly feels thing have gotten weird because of the silence. like i suggested before, make it clear to him that you are interested. Its amazing how the talking will pick up after that. :D
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ok then, I am interested in you, Nic. ;) ;)

:lol: :D
 
a.k.a.Kate_Jones said:
AgentNicBristow said:
Victoria King said:
i have a question! okay i like this guy and we were talking alot on line and he even asked me out to see a movie but then nothing else was said about then, then a week went by, i asked about the movie and now we have barely talked and ever time i try talking he doesnt say that much(all of our talking is online, but i know him in the real world to not that internet isnt real!LOL,confusing i know!) im completly lost on what to do and i really like him?!any suggestions or insights!?
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okay, he likes you, but he probly feels thing have gotten weird because of the silence. like i suggested before, make it clear to him that you are interested. Its amazing how the talking will pick up after that. :D
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ok then, I am interested in you, Nic. ;) ;)

:lol: :D
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obviously!!! we are going out, remember!!?? :D
 
Wow, I like having resident males :smiley: You just answered some very interesting questions, i could use this to my advantage to finally get ahold of my "Mr. Spiffy" lol *inside joke*
 
Gah, Mister Spiffy!! Well, then, first we need to get you a loverly dress, so you can be Spiffy together!! LMAO!!
 

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